Well. First life management rule from your favourite life guru: “A stupid person will remain stupid, no matter what u do”. You could think that this is a too drastic assumption: i’ll demonstrate u that’s not true.
I have a friend, RIccardo, who loves so much to run with his car. He worked hard and saved every coin for 4 years to buy a BMW Z4, one of the fastest cars on the market: when he finally bought it,you can imagine how much he was happy! Now: u have to know that Riccardo has the mania to show everybody how fast is his car, and this “habit” cost him something like 500€ (around 650$) in bills only in the last six mounths.
Everybody tells him that he doesn’t have to run so fast ( i was in the car when we arrived at 210 km/h): his girlfried prefers not to go with him by car when he drives and police took his car 3 times as a “security stop” in the last year. We tried every way possible to make him understand, he was also sentenced to follow a educational class in which he was shown terrible pics of car accidents….. nothing…..
this evening, just 4 or 5 hours ago, a friend calls me asking me to run to the hospital, RIccardo had an accident. Scared like hell i go there and what i find? Riccardo, lying on a bed. He has bendages everywhere, his face is litterally black and blue and he can hardly talk. With the few voice he has he looks at me and says: ” i didn’t rememberd about that curve”, than he smiles and says ” hey, don’t worry, next time i’ll remember, my mom’s car is more stable”!!!!
So what can u say to someone like that???? i think u can just hope…. he is stupid, yeah, but he won’t change, no matter what u do!!!
VINCENZO